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Wondering how you can get your girlfriend back? If you have just made your girlfriend 'walk the plank', you have come to the right place. Read on! First, letting go of your lady love was probably the biggest mistake you have made. This does not count cheating on college exam or lying to your parents. Definitely not! There is nothing worse than getting cursed by a girl after a break up. Three words - God save you!

But we have a solution! There is always a way to fix things or people, if you will. First things first - think over what you did wrong or what exactly went wrong and when it began getting complicated. Minor details are very important considering most girls read between the lines, almost all the time. It could have been something you said or did even if it was unintentional. It could also be something you may have said in your sleep! You never know!

Analyse your relationship keeping in mind the last two months that you spent together. Were you giving her enough space or too much space? Too much space is never good considering girls always need attention and pampering. Did you forget monthly or to be more specific weekly anniversary? Attention to detail is another important rule of a relationship. If you cannot remember what she was wearing for her mother's cousin's daughter's wedding, you are doomed. She mostly certainly thought that you do not care enough. Sounds silly? It is tried, tested and proved.

Once you have figured it out, straighten yourself out! Change always begins with self. If the break up has not changed anything in your approach or mannerisms, there is nothing that can help you. If you want to get your girlfriend back without changing anything about yourself, do you really think she will entertain you? Take a guess.

If she does not budge and is still mad at you for say two months. Let her know that you are on the market again. Remember not to make a fool of yourself when you do this. Don't gloat about it, just mention it in the passing either directly or through someone else. This will definitely catch her attention and make her think about you especially if you went after her soon after the breakup. In her heart of hearts, she will see that you really care but you have given up on her. When does a girl not like to be pursued? If it sounds like too much work, be prepared to take these measures if you want to get your girlfriend back!

When you are lucky enough to be able to touch base with her, apologise before you open your mouth to explain yourself. One honest apology is all it takes to win someone over. Let her talk first though and hear her out. Boy, will she complain but isn't she entitled to after what you did? Once she is done, you apologise and then explain your sorry self. Let her know that you are a new person and that you are willing to change. There is no reason she will not forgive you!

Listen Up

Listen to her. Read what she is texting you. There's nothing sexier than a guy who actually listens to a girl. Most guys get so caught up with what they plan to say to a girl. Or even how great she is. We get distracted and we forget to listen to what she's actually saying. I know that feeling. It happens to me all the time. Sometimes I feel like I need a dose of Addrerall before I listen to my girlfriend's conversations. It's almost like she keeps blabbing on and on about nothing. But if you try really, really hard, you'll find that she's actually saying something. She's usually talking about her problems or some gossip she heard about someone. Try to keep up. Even if the topic is boring. Even if you're not into drama. Fake it till you make it. Just don't let her know you're not that interested. If all else fails, try talking about something you BOTH might be interested in talking about. Like the lingerie bowl. Don't we all wish we had a girl like that?

Caring (Show Emotions)

Make sure she knows you care. Using emotional works like "CRAZY" or "UNBELIEVABLE" is a good way to show that you care about she's saying. Console her when she's feeling down. That's what separates an acquaintance from a friend and a friend from a boyfriend. The fact that you care. But you have to keep it sexy. Tell her you wish you were there to give her a "hug". This turns girls on. It lets them know that you have a heart and that you're there for them. Show them that you're that guy that can be there for them when they're sad, depressed, mad, lonely. It's things like that, that turn a friendship into something more.

Attractive Compliments

Try an attractive compliment. Don't just tell her she's amazing. Chances are, she already knows that. Tell her why she's amazing. Do it in a subtle way, without actually telling her directly. A few years ago, I used to date an artist. I actually didn't know she had a hidden desire and talent to draw super heroes. She's been doing it since she was 9 years old. I found out when I texted her:

"I have a sneaking suspicion that you're an in-the-closet creative nerd. What secret talent do you possess."

It's not the easiest thing to do, but if you get it right, you're way ahead of the game. Most guys FAIL at this miserably. You can check out more examples of attractive, flirty compliments on page 119-131 of our best selling ebook and video course. Get this right and it's gonna give you an amazing edge you never thought you had.

Escalate the conversation. Make it sexy. Tease her. Some guys are afraid that teasing a girl will make her lose attraction for you. Quite the opposite. Teasing a girl creates a challenge. It makes the girl think that you're not as into her as you thought you were. It creates doubt and a little confusion. She'll be drawn to this challenge and she'll look for a way to hook you in again. That's why the text above is so perfect. It teases her in an attractive way, calling her a "creative" nerd. Whenever I send this kind of text to a girl I like I always get responses that indicate she's trying to make herself seem non-nerdy or normal. Never fails.

Take It To The Next Level

Setup a date. Make her look forward to something... with you! It's one of the best ways to turn a girl on over text. Show her you're not afraid to take things further. Show her you're gonna lead the way. Ask her out. Even if it's just for a walk in the park, a visit to the zoo or a quiet dinner. Do it.