8 Major Mistakes to Dodge When Working From Home

Working from home does provide a lot of flexibility and the much desired work-life-balance that everyone craves today. However, the reality is very different, than what most of the people anticipate. Working from home brings a lot of challenges, and a few other things that can doom the entire business or assignments if not avoided properly.

Here are eight major mistakes that need to be avoided when starting your business or work from the comfort of home.

1. No Plans for the Day: Never start the day without a proper to-do list or a list of tasks planned, one after the other. Without a schedule to follow for the day, the entire day could slip away with nothing to show for. Having a detailed plan will help you set a deadline for everything that you have to do in the particular day. If you happen to be left with some unscheduled time, then use it to deal with the most important tasks or keep it handy for some unexpected issues that may crop up all of a sudden.

2. Permitting Interruptions: When no one is watching you, the temptation to talk to friends and family over the phone will always arise. It is good to call them once in a while but if this becomes a regular practice then you are definitely permitting interruptions to your work. This trait hurts the focus and consequently the productivity of your business. Hence, one must refrain from gossiping or unnecessary talk over the phone while you are at work. The other necessary distractions such as childcare, laundry, cooking, gardening etc. could be handed over to babysitters and family members. They must be explained clearly that you are to be disturbed only for the urgent requests.

3. Work Schedule of 24/7: At times, it does become a bit difficult to finish the work in the due time. Working from home allows the person to take care of unfinished business anytime he so wishes. But this doesn't mean that one should have a 24/7 work schedule, and work round the clock. The time for work could be set as per your convenience, where you must spend some quality time with your friends and family too.

4. No Separate Area of Work: Even if your home isn't huge, you must set aside a particular space just for the work. Take the little-used room or a corner of your living area, in order to split the home from work. In case you have to work in the area of the house that is common such as the kitchen or dining room, do stack away all the personal belongings to give it a professional tone for the work.

5. Too Busy to Remain Organized: As soon as the assignments pile up, the organization of various things tend to slide away. Succumbing to disorganization becomes easier when one works from the same place he has been living so far. One must always keep a track of what they have done at work, and how much work is left on a particular assignment. The filing and storage of documents as well as business related items should be done separately. The home-office area should remain clean and well-organized at all times.

6. Too Much Dependence on Loved Ones: When there are no co-workers around, the possibility of you discussing your business problems with your friends or spouse increases. You may also seek their help for the housework related things on a regular basis, since you are busy with work. This may create a problem in the long run, as your loved ones may not understand about your business. Moreover, seeking their help regularly could annoy them and strain your relationship. Hence, try to avoid this situation as much as you can.

7. Allowing Employees Abuse Your Home: You will risk getting your home damaged, if you do not set, and enforce the rules of how the employees must behave, when they are at your place for work. One can always ask his employees to take off their shoes before entering the house as well as clean off the designated work area at the end of the day. This will always keep things comfortable and the area tidy.

8. Loneliness: This is the most complained aspect of working from home. The majority of the people who take up this kind of isolated work environment in the hope that they would spend more time with family and friends, do not know about it till it doesn't happen to them. It may look good to have everything done virtually but taking some time away, from the home office for meetings with clients, will certainly help keep the loneliness away as well as build the business. Do take occasional breaks from work when time permits and keep a different kind of schedule every week.

How A Famous Hollywood Actor And Three Little Words Helped To Save My Marriage

Three Little Words

If you were to conduct a poll of a section of the general public and asked each person in the poll for their opinion of celebrity marriages and relationships, I am pretty sure the vast majority would say, relatively speaking, celebrity relationships tend to not last very long. Such perceptions are perhaps fuelled by our daily diet of tabloid gossip and tittle tattle where a day never seems to go by without some celebrity couple splitting or battling it out in the courts over paternity rights and divorce settlements.

However, there is one Hollywood celebrity whose marriage to the same partner endured the test of time. The late Charlton Heston (1923 - 2008), Academy Award Best Actor and star of, amongst others, the 1950s Biblical epics, The Ten Commandments and Ben-Hur, a true Hollywood Great, had an acting career lasting more than 60 years and was married to the same woman for 64 years. I will always remember an answer he once gave to a question he was asked about his long marriage during a TV interview. When asked how his marriage had endured for so long, which was all the more remarkable in an industry renowned for the high turnover of marriages and relationships, Charlton Heston's somewhat tongue-in-cheek answer went something like, "my friend, I learnt three very important little words early on in my marriage - those three words are 'You Are Right'"

The Way Of Communication

Although this somewhat amusing answer from Charlton Heston implies a certain subservience on his part, his remark has stuck with me ever since because it made me appreciate the importance of communication. The key ingredient in a successful relationship is good communication.

Now, when most people are advised to communicate, they naturally assume this means talking more. However communication is more than just talking. It is in fact the art of combining the ability to express your opinions and feelings in such a way as to ensure that the person you are communicating with understands the message you trying to convey to him or her, with the ability to listen and understand the other person's point of view.

Empathy Is The Watchword

The operative word here is Empathy. The word Empathy refers to this ability to put yourself in another person's shoes, or to see their point of view. This ability to listen and to put yourself in the other person's shoes is crucial to good communication and is the life blood of successful relationships. As human beings our minds are built in such a way as to always want our view to prevail. There are deep psychological reasons for this to do with survival instincts and our view of what we are. To test this out, the next time you find yourself in an argument with someone, try and step back from the heat of the argument and notice how the only reason the argument continues is because each of the people involved is trying to push their point of view forward to make sure they win the argument. Simply by doing a little more listening and accepting of the other person's position will put an end to the matter.

Sadly many relationship problems begin with poor communication, in other words, not enough listening and consideration of the other person's view. Couples often feel that their partner should know what they are thinking and how they feel so do not communicate and then wonder why they feel neglected and undervalued. Therefore the next time you find yourself at odds with your partner or anyone else, remember Empathy is the watchword or at least remember Charlton Heston and the Three Little Words.

Your Job Is Destroying Your Life - Stop It!

It's not a secret that a great number of people feel unhappy at work. They experience poor work life balance, feel emotionally and physically exhausted, not motivated, can not communicate to their bosses successfully and feel their job is killing them. If you know you hate your job or will hate it soon, follow these strategies:

1. Stop Hanging Around With Gossiping Pessimists
Negativity can be spread around like flu, avoid spending too much time with those who hate the company and find faults with it endlessly. What you hear at work is very important, try to create a positive work environment around you in the workplace. Cheer up and let others feel better.

2. Insist on the Need to Get Feedback
If your boss is not willing to give you any feedback, insist on it. Prove how important it is to you. Besides, your boss might not be aware of your needs, don't expect him / her to be a mind reader, initiate this conversation.

3. Stop Suffering from a Bad Boss's Behavior
A bad boss may be a nasty creature who bullies and insults employees. There are various ways to get rid of a bad boss, from complaining to company HR managers to gaining a promotion in another department.

4. Be More Creative
Make yourself more visible at work by coming up with new ideas. If there is something that bothers you at work, if you think you know the ways to improve employees efficiency in your department and make work atmosphere more favorable - take courage to propose something new.

5. Ask for a Pay Rise
Money does motivate people. A pay rise is sure to brighten everything up. If you feel you are underpaid and deserve more, talk to your supervisors about it.

6. Consider a Job Change
If you are feeling that everything is said and done at this job, you are underestimated, there is no chance for promotion and the routine is boring to death, take courage to give it all up. There is no point in losing your time and valuable skills and not getting anything from the company in exchange. Consider opportunities to work abroad, volunteering or working for a nonprofit organization.

Some people tend to retain one job because they are scared of dramatic life changes. If you have made up your mind to become a happy employee, be prepared to take risks.

Trends in Build-it-Yourself Solar Panels

Have you heard the buzz about the improved build it yourself solar panels instructional kits? You can see ads on CNN, MSN, Yahoo, The New York Times and many other news sources. Now you can have a quick and easy way to build your own solar panels.

There is a right and wrong way to go about building your own solar panels though. (If you get this wrong you will waste your time and money. But, do it right and you will have a solar panel you can be proud of and you will save money at the same time.

Solar panels come in a broad range of types. To begin with, there are the experiments you can do in the kitchen with school age children. This is a entertaining and very educational, but you are not going to make much electricity !

Then we have the highly technically advanced systems that cost $20,000 and more. For the right application this is the way to go, but obviously not for the average homeowner.

The type of solar panel that the average homeowner can make can be found somewhere between these two extremes. Build it yourself solar panels are the way to go, this is something you can do this on your own.

Not only will you be helping the environment, but you will save money as well!

Getting started with build it yourself solar panels

Saving money and helping the environment are the two main reasons for making your own solar panels Where I live, energy use is a hot topic because of the ever increasing costs of generating all that power and the environmental impact.

Utility bills just keep rising, and it doesn't look like this trend will be reversed anytime soon! My daughter, who lives in California has a monthly electric bill of over $300, and she is conservation minded!

The impact of coal fired power plants is staggering. Strip mines, destroyed habitat, air and water pollution are just a few more obvious problems. Then there is nuclear power, with all the risks and toxic waste dilemmas.

Ways to ensure that you succeed

Without a doubt, buying a quality instruction kit is the way to go. You will have all the information you need to have a working solar energy panel. With a small investment you get all the necessary plans, written instructions, video guides, and DVD guidelines.

Your build it yourself solar panel kit will have examples of actual people who made their own panels. It is quite a feeling of accomplishment to do this, with the added benefit of saving on your electric bill! You will need a good dose of motivation, persistence,and patience though. It is easy, but you still have to work at it!

Learn the MUST KNOW methods of build it yourself solar panels

Make the decision to get the best kit you can, set aside a weekend, plan ahead and stick with it. Now that you know a bit more about what you are doing, make another solar panel- better than the first. Next thing you know, you will have a small grid of panels, absorbing the sunshine all day long!

You kit will show you the MUST KNOW techniques to save you headaches, endless trips to the hardware store and your hard earned cash. Without the kit, you have to figure everything out on your own. For some technical people this might be just fine, but, for most of us, we need the guidance and help from an expert.

The kit will tell you the best places to get your supplies, how everything works, how to put it together, and how to troubleshoot your system. In the unlikely event that you need it, they offer customer support as well.

Before you know it, you will have a nice, good looking, fully functional homemade solar panel. Plus you will have done this for less than $200 US; usually a lot less, depending on your resourcefulness.

The future looks bright for solar energy.

People all over the world are turning to renewable energy. As technology advances, rest assured that build it yourself solar panels will become more and more common. With the newer technologies, it is even practical to use solar energy in cloudy zones.

In conclusion, build it yourself solar panels is a great way to get started. You can do this!

Multi-Touch Human Interfaces Have Arrived

Multi-touch human interfaces have arrived, but so far they are like surprise visitors: we may be happy to see them, but we're not ready to let them move-in for good. For those of us who are engineers and work every day to realize the dreams of future products, multi-touch offers an opportunity to change the world, in much the same way the first graphical user interfaces did. The race has just begun, but make no mistake, it will be won soon. Personally, I'm not convinced we have a winner yet, and if we don't step up to make multi-touch a great technology, we will live with it being marginal for a long time.

What is multi-touch?

The world applauded Apple's first-generation interpretation of a multi-touch interface in the iPhone 1.0. The new user interface worked, it offered appropriate functionality, and they didn't forget to make phone-calling easy. Apple iPhone added gestures to our vocabulary, offering two-finger pinch to zoom-in, two-finger open to zoom-out, and two-finger rotate; all intuitive and useful on a device with a camera and small screen.

Not many people realize that Apple began their foray into multi-touch with the two-finger touchpad sensing implemented in their large touchpad notebooks that was utilized by the operating system and every application. Even before the iPhone, an Apple notebook user could scroll, both vertical and horizontal, using two fingers on the touchpad. Apple even made their stubborn single-button-touchpad choice look prescient by enabling right-mouse button functionality by putting two fingers on the touchpad and clicking the button (eliminating the annoying -click). Again, it's hard to call these choices anything but useful and welcome. Just recently, multi-touch offerings or announcements from many different vendors highlight the "final-frontier" opportunity today for multi-touch user interface technology. Apple introduced their next-generation MacBooks on October 9, 2008 showing the familiar two-finger gestures of iPhone with new - and less intuitive - three- and four-finger gestures. Microsoft began shipping its multi-touch brain-child called Surface that comes with a hefty $5,000 to $15,000 price tag making it clearly aimed at money-making businesses (early adopters are AT&T and Harrah's Entertainment). At the October 2008 Microsoft Professional Developer's conference, Microsoft unveiled its upcoming Windows 7 and promised multi-touch support. The Microsoft idea of multi-touch as shown with Surface provides some gestures, like the 2-finger gestures to zoom and rotate, but seems more targeted at a multi-user experience. So the question remains, what is multi-touch? The impact of multi-touch will be as far-reaching as the computer mouse and the engineering community needs to step in to ensure that multi-touch fares better in the future than the graphics pad (remember the digitizing, pen-like computer input device that none of us has on our notebooks?)

Multi-touch technology today

In contrast, single-touch interfaces are most often based on the old "touchscreen" technologies most of us experienced on our cell phones and PDAs were resistive, where the stylus position yielded two voltages, one representing the "X-axis" position and the other representing the "Y-axis". Single-touch interfaces result in the same X-Y data that a traditional track-pad and mouse provides today. For their multi-touch interfaces, Apple uses capacitive sensing and Microsoft Surface uses cameras. Capacitive sensing is also the technology typically used in single-touch trackpads in notebook computers. There are several module, screen and individual silicon vendors supporting multi-touch, so there are many options available on the market, making selection a potentially confusing process. Depending upon the technology, it is possible to simultaneously sense the position of all 10 fingers on a display. Certainly the capability to support multi-touch interfaces in a myriad of ways is available. The rub is that there is no one standard way to use this multi-touch data in a computer application.

To see where multi-touch can go, let's return to how the two easiest-to-review implementations of multi-touch interpret what the users of the future (that's you and me) need. The Apple iPhone implements what is referred to as " Multi-Touch Gestures " where two fingers are sensed and their relative motions translated into a gesture that a program can react to (i.e., rotate, zoom, select and move). At a minimum, these gestures need to appear quickly in the lexicon of every laptop, but that means every program and operating systems needs to change to accommodate them. Beyond the 2-finger gestures, the picture blurs quickly. "Multi-Touch All Point" technology enables many simultaneous inputs from the touchscreen or touchpad. What to do with these inputs, now, is the question. There are huge opportunities here, but the current examples of Apple and Microsoft are not exploiting them to the fullest.

Apple has included three- and four-finger gestures on the new MacBook, but only Apple applications use these gestures

(unlike the scrolling and left clicking two-finger gestures). Additionally, the thought process behind which functions should take three fingers and which four fingers appears to be somewhat arbitrary. What doesn't make sense is the comeback of the button, being used as a modifier to the three-finger gestures, even though the touchpad is large and has the ability to sense lots of fingers. Also, the multi-touch equivalent of the mouse-click+ -drag to select seems to have disappeared. Anyone else have trouble completely adopting a Palm(TM) PDA because Grafitti(TM) never became second nature?

Intuitive gestures equal easy adoption

Likewise, Microsoft with Surface(TM) seems to be stumbling in the dark when it comes to using more than two-fingers. For instance, they have a virtual air-hockey game demo that uses one finger for each player to grab and move the controller (there is another version that uses a physical controller like a traditional air-hockey table, but that isn't a multi-touch interface). When I play real air-hockey, I would have been stupid to use one finger, and the true-to-life nature of Surface does reflect this behavior as you can see the user's controller slip-and-slide around as if he were using only one finger to control a large disk. There are other problems too, such as the controllers sometimes switch players when they get too close. This commentary is not intended to slam Apple's MacBooks or Microsoft's Surface but rather to highlight the fact that the multitouch field is wide open. The technical capabilities available today do offer a much more natural and intuitive user interface IF AND ONLY IF we as engineers harness the power and direct it to the greater good.

The software development kits and software development tools for Microsoft, Apple, and Linux all provide built-in, standard support for keyboards and X-Y pointing devices (mouse and track-pad buttons as well). Anyone today can target any operating system and as long as the "input" is translated into one or more keyboard keys and X-Y position, any application can use that input. For example, someone could develop, using standard offerings in any operating system, a 10'-by-10' room as a trackpad replacement, where one runs around on the floor, jumps up and down, and throws one's body against a wall to select and move icons around a PC screen. In the multi-touch future, what do we as a development community need to do to secure a similar level of freedom to develop input devices and the programs that interact with them? What do we need to demand as a standard set of provided capabilities so program developers do not have to worry about the input device and input device makers do not have to worry about the programs? While the ultimate answers are up to all of us, the answers being developed today could seriously affect our lives for the future.

The future of Multi-touch is in our hands

"Standards" for multi-touch interfaces are being developed whether we like it or not and now is the time to get involved, make noise, ad shape the future of multi-touch. Let me put forward some of my suggestions for a better multi-touch future. Read them, use them to come up with better ideas, and then get involved by either working with the standards-setters or by implementing a multi-touch device and putting it into people's hands so we can mobilize more troops in this fight for a great multi-touch future.First, we need a few standard, intuitive gestures and second, we need a standard data interface to provide position data for up to 10 fingers. Standard gestures should cover the most common computer/information device operations, like scroll, zoom, select, move, and grab-and-move, as well as all the new functions multi-touch will enable. What we do not need are multiple company-patented sets of gestures. Rather, let the innovators patent better and smarter techniques of determining the gestures. Note that we do not need a long list of standard gestures, because if that is what we get, users will need to print out the list and paste it to the back of their devices, just like we all did with Grafitti on our Palm PDAs before we stopped using them. Also, gesture detection cannot be forced exclusively upon the operating system nor can it be forced exclusively upon the input device. The best standard solution would accommodate both for maximum flexibility. However, if a choice between

operating system or input device is forced, the operating system must be allowed to win.

Do not stop with standard gestures (or the corollary: Do not define everything as a gesture). Define a data standard for multitouch input devices for tracking up to ten independent inputs. Realize that the use of this data for quite some time to come will be application-specific. That said, and over time the best behaviors (we hope) will be adopted into the operating systems, Why ten and not more? Most devices are primarily single-user or have multiple users doing simpler actions on a relatively small screen. Let the special-purpose large-format devices like Surface explore what to do with more than ten inputs, and when something proves itself useful, it can trickle down. The multi-touch train is leaving the station. For those who do not like everything they have seen so far, get involved and push the envelope further. Use multi-touch in new and interesting ways and let others see and hear about your successes and failures (especially the guys in Cupertino and Redmond). The industry can make multi-touch great, but only if we work

together.

Feed Your Weight Loss Desire - The Key to Staying Motivated

There is more to weight loss success than just diet and exercise you must also feed your weight loss desire in order to reach your goal and stay there. This article shares tried and true methods for building your desire and staying motivated and if you can spare just a couple of minutes you might just tap into that wonderful inner resource - self-motivation.

Weight Loss Desire

1. Write down ALL the reasons. Why do you want to lose weight? What will being thinner mean to your day-to-day life? Write it down and don't stop writing until you uncover that deep, heart-felt reason that moves you to action.

2. Focus on these positive reasons. Researchers who study why people reach goals show that people who stay focused on all the positive things that will come from their efforts are the ones who stay motivated and stay on track.

3. Don't linger on the day-to-day chores of losing weight. Yes, there will be times during your journey when things get boring but instead of dwelling on all the things you must do, expand your focus and daydream about how much this is adding to your life and how your co-workers are going to reach when they see you...

4. CANCEL limiting thoughts. You will have thoughts that lead to self-sabotage unless you cancel them. No one is immune to limiting thoughts that make them want to quit the thing to remember is that you do not have to entertain these thoughts or let them grow and multiply inside your head. The best practice is to learn to recognize these negative thoughts early and then as soon as you hear one yell CANCEL to yourself. It disrupts the thought so it cannot grow.

5. Commit to one thing. If you overwhelm yourself on your weight loss journey you will kill your desire. Instead get really good at one thing (i.e. keeping a food journal, exercising every day, eating breakfast faithfully) and when you get really good at that one thing add another. You will find that your weight loss desire builds and builds.

Endless Youth

Whether you're an avid swimmer or not, swimming has obvious benefits as opposed to other forms of exercise. With the lack of stress on joints, save perhaps shoulders, it is an ideal activity for all ages and is often used for physical therapy.

I have been swimming since I was just 5 years old and although learning how to swim can be a challenge it can be rewarding in ways I have only begun to realize as I venture into my early twenties. If you ever see older people swimming at the local YMCA then you're not alone, or the ever-exclusive women's water aerobics (aka gossip club). But, the fact that you see these older people in the pool tells you something. It shows you that the water is the most accepting medium for exercise.

So often you hear about sports injuries and people requiring rehabilitation due to joint or tendon issues, but swimming has allowed me over the years to maintain peak conditioning while making sure recovery is always easy. If you say, "Swimming is too hard" or "I'm just bad at it" that's OK. You don't have to be good at swimming to get a workout, and it doesn't take long for you to start learning how to make it easier. Swimming is simply fantastic, it works practically every part of the body all at once.

If you're still convinced you're not a swimmer then consider this: swimming in general helps speed up your recovery of muscles. What this means for athletes and others is that you can get an edge on your competition by speeding up your recovery process which ultimately means you can workout harder and more often than the other guys. In college swimming we often times warm-down after an intense exercise which helps get rid of the lactic acid built up in our system. So basically, by swimming (light to medium paced) you can get rid of that lactic acid that causes soreness and prevention of muscle building.

Swimming helps build muscle!

So why wouldn't you start using your local pool? Even if you just jump in for 30 minutes it'll be one of the most important 30 minutes of your workout week. After all, there's a reason why people marvel at the "swimmer's body", the water lets your body do things it normally could not. So BE SMART about your workouts and include some swimming, if nothing else to just rinse off after lifting.